Sevda’s Thoughts on Gifting
I haven’t been blogging for a long time. I missed it!
I am not a friend of obligatory gifting….. but of course I still want to show my love with gifts to my loved ones. When you are too busy to remember and to give all year long, The holiday season feels like the time to reconnect. Even if you are not a believer or have different beliefs, the Holidays still get to you! It must be the magic of the holiday lights and Christmas carols and the smell of cardamon (whatever that is)!
Here is my list of
1- Non Material Gifts (the kind I like the most)
The first one on my list is GIVE LOVE and TIME! By giving someone your time and undivided attention it provides an opportunity to reconnect with one another. Talking with them for a day, half a day or even just one hour can be a very fun and relaxing time for both of you.
GIVE HELP: Help with the undone chores and repairs, go do the grocery shopping, help fix a computer issue, help with legal issues…..however big or small the task -it matters!
GIVE SKILLS: Teaching someone “How to….” is a great gift. Everybody has a talent. It can be cooking, arts and crafts, business survival skills, gardening….. you name it! What are you good at???? You’ll be surprised how much people appreciate it!
GIVE AN EXPERIENCE: Give someone a 1 hour yoga, pilates, dance or meditation class or a massage. If you can’t do it yourself, take them to a studio and share the experience together.
GIVE HELP TO OTHERS IN NEED by contributing in the name of the person you are gifting. I love the idea of Adopting a Snow Leopard (from our partner Snow Leopard Trust) which helps protect the endangered snow leopards and thier habitat. Another idea is giving to an orphange. There are many orphanages in many countries that would love your help many ways. Choosing the right non-profit beneficiary to support can be difficult, but it is rewarding if you find one matching the interest of the person you are gifting. Together you can track back and see how your money gets spent and see directly the benefits of your gift.
There are countless other non-material gifts (actions) you can take to make others happy, and of course yourself at the same time!
By creating a symbolic item, card or certificate, to describe your non-material gift, you can also ensure they experience the joy of opening and holding a present and of course it helps if you tell the story of the gift along with it!
Giving material gifts is unavoidably, but also pleasurably connected to the Holiday season. So here are some thoughts on that!
2- Material Gifts
GIVE WHAT THEY NEED: Figure out if the person you are gifting has a material need. If you can afford it, pay the rent/mortgage for the entire family, I am sure they will appreciate it very much. Pay the electric or gas bill for your mom! Or the Monthly payments for …. you name it! Or get some friends together and build that new front deck, garden walkway, ramp or kitchen cabinets they have been needing so long.
With things instead of actions, it is of course easier to enjoy the unwrapping, etc. Material gifts are best when they are remembered the whole year around. So be remembered with gifts made with Quality, Design, Sustainability and Love!
We can shape our environment, our and our children’s lifetimes with our conscious consumption decisions. Sustainable Products from natural materials like glass, wool, Organic cotton, metal, porcelain, wood, seeds, paper, plants are easily renewable, reusable and recyclable.
We can make a difference.
My next installment will be about our Holiday offerings along those lines, but you can already sneak a peak by going to our Gift Guide!

























